Daring to Dream...


Last Monday night, I found myself wondering what happens when we don't inspire the young people in our life to "dare to discover what God has dreamed up for them."  As a young girl, I had no idea what plans God had for my life.  I was full of energy, had a love for people, loved being around the church, loved being a Pastor's kid, developed a deep love for Jesus, and spunky seemed to be my middle name.  While I had a few plans and dreams for the future as a child, none of them included being a Youth Pastor.

I had a lot of amazing people pour into me as a child.  My Mom was always a huge source of encouragement.  She taught me (and continues to teach me) the value in making people feel "valuable."  My Grandpa showed me what it means to really love people, regardless of where they come from.  I had a Sunday School teacher in the third grade who not only put up with my spunkiness, but instilled a deep love for Jesus at an early age.  My best friend's parents taught me what it meant to give generously, something they modeled as our family struggled at times financially.  My Grandmom modeled what it means to truly share the hope of Jesus in every situation (even if it was really awkward to pray with the waitress that was taking your order at the local Denny's).

There were all those people who called out things in me that I didn't see in myself.  My Youth Pastor, Darryl, was one of those.  I remember the first time he came to interview for his job and my Dad let me ask him some questions.  I don't remember what I asked or what he said, but that day marked the beginning of a journey that would eventually help me discover my call to ministry.  Daryl saw gifts in me that I couldn't see in myself.  He helped me to dream big things for the middle and high school I was attending.  He encouraged me to be bold in sharing my faith, even when I was ridiculed for it.  He invited me to lead many times, even when he knew there was the potential to fail.  He had conversations with me that challenged me and caused me to ask the question, "What is God really dreaming up for my life?"  He celebrated with me when I received my call to ministry in the 9th grade and believed in what God could do though me before I could believe it myself.

Professor Dan Boone was another one.  I took his preaching class as one of my final credits before earning my Masters Degree.  I was scared to death.  Not only was I afraid to speak in front of people (this would be an issue in becoming a youth pastor I kept telling myself), but he was really, really, really, good at preaching!  It was intimidating.  I felt insecure.  I wondered if I had anything to offer.  Dr. Boone believed in what God had called me to do, before I believed in it myself.  When I finished preaching in class that first time, Dr. Boone spoke words of encouragement that had huge implications for my life.  While I don't remember the words, I remember walking away believing that God had called me to be Pastor and he would give me the means and grace to do what he had called me to do.

Last Monday night was significant, because I stood with my Dad, singing in the Ordained Ministers Choir for our Church Denomination District Assembly.   I was ordained several years ago, and my Dad had the privilege of praying over me that night.  Every year, it's been our tradition to sing in the choir together, remembering together what we have been called by God to do.  My Dad has had a HUGE impact on my life.

I remember as a child going on hospital calls, hanging out in his office, visiting shut-ins, taking notes during his preaching (he should feel honored with that one!), and catching a glimpse from an early age as to what it means to let go of your own dreams and plans and follow after the heart of God without reservation.  Throughout high school, my Dad continued to encourage me to pursue God's dreams for my life, regardless of how "unconventional" they seemed.  Through college, he encouraged me to step out and do the things that not only scared me, but that I knew God was asking of me.  He reminded me that this life is more than our plans, our dreams, our desires.

As I stood in that choir last week, I couldn't help but have mixed feelings.  On one hand, I felt incredibly grateful for all of the people God has placed along my journey that have dared me to look past my own plans and dare to dream about what God might be calling me to do and be.  On the other hand, I couldn't help but think of so many young people who have no idea what God has created them for.  Maybe it's because they have been taught to be "successful," to "do what you are good at," to do "what will make the most money."  Maybe it's just because they are waiting for someone to dream with them about what God might be calling them to do.

To Mom, Dad, Darryl, Dr. Boone, Mr. Barry, Mr. Harry, Mrs. Darlene, and so many more...thanks for showing me what it means to totally fall in love with Jesus.  Thanks for reminding me that "unconventional" is pretty awesome.   Thanks for calling out things you saw in me before I could see them in myself.   Thanks for daring to dream.


Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

The Donut Story

Image
When I was about five years into being a Youth Pastor, I met a group of kids that changed my life.  Many of you reading this, who know me personally, have probably heard me talk about them numerous times.  Nate and I happened to live in the parsonage next door to the church I was serving at at the time, and would routinely come home to a group of boys that I would have described then as "rough around the edges."   They dressed mostly in black, had long hair, and sometimes even had black painted fingernails.  They loved to smoke, and they loved to skateboard.  After a few days of watching them through our window, Nate and I went outside and brought them some sodas.  We introduced ourselves, told them I was the Youth Pastor at the church, and invited them to come to youth group.  While they politely declined our invitation, we continued to invite them over and over again, attempted to skate with them, and fill them with snacks.  Until one day, ...
Read more

A Mother's Heart...

Image
It was the night before we were ready to leave for Ethiopia that it dawned on me. We hadn’t given the necklace to Biruk yet. When we had exchanged necklaces with his birth mom ten years prior at the orphanage, we had no idea when we would give it to him. We just knew that we wanted him to be old enough to appreciate it, as it would be the only thing he would have from her. We had no idea if we would ever see her again.  There have been several moments in our journey where I’ve had to pinch myself, because it has felt like I was dreaming. That night as we put our final things in our suitcases, took a deep breath, and came to the realization that we were not only taking our kids to Ethiopia, but that Biruk would in fact meet his birth mom…well, you had to pinch me, because it felt like I was dreaming. It also felt like the perfect moment to share this gift that we had been holding onto for 10 years. So we pulled out the necklace and gave it to Biruk. While words can be few and...
Read more

Stories Matter

Image
Yesterday, my family and I found ourselves at a local elementary school’s culture club, presenting about our trip to Ethiopia. Even as I write those words, it kind of blows my mind how God has continued to use our story in unexpected places. When the kids were old enough to understand, we began to talk about taking them back to their birth country when they turned 10. We figured at 10, they would be old enough to be pretty good travelers, but still approach the adventure with a childlike wonder. What we didn’t plan on, was that the year Biruk turned 10 would come on the heels of me taking a brand new job, our family moving to a new state, and buying our very first house, in an economy that felt as though it was tanking!  I remember talking to my counselor one day and sharing with him that while we had always promised this trip to our kids, it just didn’t seem to make financial sense. After all, last time I checked, Southwest Airlines does not travel to Africa. He said someth...
Read more