The Past Five Years...

Well the time has finally arrived for Nate and I to start a blog. It's definitely going to be a journey, because it took us at least 3 days to name the blog and I am still not satisfied with the title! "Life Unexpected"...It really does describe the past five years of our life. So, in case you missed out on those 5 years, we'll fill you in.

We started "planning" for a family after 3 years of marriage. Little did we know, our plans would be totally different then the plans to come. We tried several means of fertility treatments. Lots of shots and 3 fertility treatments later, we still wound up not pregnant and in the "unexplained category."

Those 5 years have been some of the most trying times in my life. I cried a lot...I yelled at God a lot...I watched as EVERYONE (and I do mean everyone..best friend, sister, people at church, teen in my youth group...everyone) got pregnant. I was so confused, so broken, and completely devastated. At the same time, the past 5 years of my life have probably been some of the most shaping years of my life. I have learned more about myself, about my relationship with God, about God's faithfulness, His timing and His perfect plan, then I could have ever imagined. This journey has been transformational and continues to be transformational and for that I am forever grateful.

Which brings Nate and I to the present. WE ARE ADOPTING A CHILD FROM ETHIOPIA!!!!

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  1. Kerry SkehanMay 11, 2010 at 7:10 PM

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  2. steelersgirlMay 11, 2010 at 9:47 PM

    Many of us have been on this journey with you and Nate for the past 5 years. It is so hard to believe that it has been 5 years. That's how I know that 1 to 1 1/2 years is going to go fast too. I can't wait to be the baby's favorite babysitter because I am already Al's favorite dogsitter. I'll take on the challenge of sitting both for you guys when the time comes. Love you and praying always for you.

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  3. April DMay 13, 2010 at 8:59 AM

    While we've never met, I'm totally crying reading your first blog posts. I'm so excited for you guys and yet so sad that it's come from such a painful place. The best (and most challenging!) times are still to come...

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  4. UnknownSeptember 30, 2010 at 11:57 AM

    Ok, so I'm starting from the very beginning!! We too are in the infertility battle...3 years in December, but still trusting God's sovereignty!!

    I'm off to read some more!!

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